How to Be Different
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There are many people out there who want to be "part of the crowd." If you want to be the leader and stand out from the crowd instead, then this article is for you. It's a wonderful feeling to know that you are original and unique.
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- 1Stop worrying about how other people see you, at least to some extent. You have to be confident in your own being before you'll successfully be able to be different.
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- Try not to compare yourself to others. If you actually are interested in being strange in order to learn from yourself and your world, rather than because you want to put on a facade of uniqueness (which you will get bored of and toss away eventually), do not make this into a contest.
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Reflect on yourself. Read books, watch others. What makes them special? try and find things that make you shine, and work on developing those to their full potential.
- Know that it is okay to imitate a variety of people in small ways. This is called "inspiration". For instance, you may adopt Jackie Kennedy's habit of speaking softly, Audrey Hepburn's hairstyle, and your best friend's sarcasm (but don't outright imitate her, this is annoying). By adopting habits that you truly love, and developing your own interests and personality traits, you will discover your true self.
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Adopt outfit ideas from a variety of sources. For instance, your shirt may be influenced by Ralph Lauren's latest collection, while your cool skirt might have been inspired by the 1940's movie you watched. (PS: Dress the way you truly want to, don't get too caught up in being different.) Wear things that you love and look good in, not things that are necessarily "in style."
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Find good, positive friends with diverse interests. They will aid you in being more confident. Learn and sift out the positive different things you can learn from them.
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Be intelligent. Because if you know everything, you can better decide who you want to be. Be the kid who reads "A Doll's House" and "Gossip Girl". In this way you can develop a fully functional mind of your own, without being unduly influenced by others. At the same time you will learn to know exactly what is it you want.
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Keep an open mind and respect other people's differences. Don't reject one clique just to join another. A truly different person is someone brave enough to stand on their own. Someone who has their own backbone.
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Remember that self-discovery is an ongoing process. The person you are at 15 is not who you will be at 22, or 49, or 97! Our needs and interests change as we grow older. Things which were important to us then, sometimes don't seem to matter anymore. Wisdom replaces petty ambitions as we learn to grow from ourselves.
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Be bold! No need to be an ardent follower. Sometimes it is good to create a precedence and let others follow in your footsteps. This does not entail being arrogant or full of yourself. Being bold should define your strength and attributes as a fully functional and optimistic human being.
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- Don't act superior to those who are not different. Many of them truly like the styles they wear and the TV shows they watch. Remember, popular things are popular for a reason. Don't dismiss them, as you may truly love them. You could be astonished by "The O.C."'s wit, or fall in love with The Plain White T's.
- Being random in order to seem weird is often extremely obnoxious and is, again, very superficial. It will not necessarily help you see the world in a new or different way.
- Be very open-minded, or at least try to be. Learn to see the world from different perspectives (and not necessarily just human perspectives, either). Don't be afraid of those who challenge your preconceptions and values. At the same time, be wary of being too gullible.
- Try to be at peace with yourself. Being a bitchy person because people question your strangeness will get you nowhere. Being surprised if people dislike your weirdness is just oblivious stupidity on your part. If you are not willing to endure some odd glances or comments, you will have no choice but to keep your blossoming strangeness to yourself.
- For those who have the patience and responsibility for it, certain practices can give you interesting results, some of these being meditation, dream studies, and psychedelic substances (see first point on warnings)
Read Funny Jokes & More With Our Free Toolbar. Download Today!- Don't act superior to those who are not different. Many of them truly like the styles they wear and the TV shows they watch. Remember, popular things are popular for a reason. Don't dismiss them, as you may truly love them. You could be astonished by "The O.C."'s wit, or fall in love with The Plain White T's.
- Being random in order to seem weird is often extremely obnoxious and is, again, very superficial. It will not necessarily help you see the world in a new or different way.
- Be very open-minded, or at least try to be. Learn to see the world from different perspectives (and not necessarily just human perspectives, either). Don't be afraid of those who challenge your preconceptions and values. At the same time, be wary of being too gullible.
- Try to be at peace with yourself. Being a bitchy person because people question your strangeness will get you nowhere. Being surprised if people dislike your weirdness is just oblivious stupidity on your part. If you are not willing to endure some odd glances or comments, you will have no choice but to keep your blossoming strangeness to yourself.
- For those who have the patience and responsibility for it, certain practices can give you interesting results, some of these being meditation, dream studies, and psychedelic substances (see first point on warnings)
Warnings
- Don't label yourself. Just because you feel that you are a "gangsta" doesn't mean that you can't love ballet.
- Don't let people let you down, because you know what? They are jealous because you have your own cool style
- Take note that by asking someone else how to be different, you are defeating the purpose of what you are trying to do. Meaning if you're asking someone else how to be different you will NOT be different because the vast majority of the time they tell you things that they themselves would do to be different. Therefore asking someone else how to be different is practically impossible because they will unknowingly tell you how to be like them. It's quite a paradoxical conundrum, isn't it?
- Remember that being weird is not necessarily better than "being normal." All people are weird in their own ways, even if they do conform to society's rules. Being "normal" can simply mean you prefer a way of living somewhat less fraught with confusions, odd thinking, and inner struggle -- a simple, pleasant life (something that many desire, and understandably so).
How to Change Attitude at Work
6 authors | 9 revisions | Last updated: May 23, 2012
The type of attitude you have at work plays an important role in your productivity and job performance. A positive attitude is conducive to your occupational success, while a negative attitude is counter-productive. Therefore, if you do not have a positive attitude towards work, you may want to consider an attitude change in order to improve your work experience. Follow these suggestions for how to change attitude at work.
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- 1Identify the causes behind your undesirable attitude. You may find that some of the things that are affecting your attitude in a negative way are things that you can change.
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Make necessary changes. Once you figure out what is causing your counter-productive attitude, determine what you can do to remedy those causes. For example, if you find that your attitude suffers because you feel tired most of the day, then a simple way to counteract that would be to get more sleep at night, or to learn how to take power naps during your lunch and break times. If your work is not challenging enough, then you may change attitude by taking on some new tasks.
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Focus on a positive mindset. It is important that you approach work with a realistic mental image of what your relationship with your work should be.
- Accept the fact that certain tasks associated with your job may be less fulfilling than others.
- Recognize that a lack of motivation does not mean that you cannot complete your tasks. Rather, it means that you would prefer not to. You must acknowledge that an attitude change is your own responsibility, and something that you must proactively work toward.
- Avoid comparing yourself to others who seem to enjoy the parts of their jobs that you don't enjoy, as this will only make you feel insufficient. Remember, it is likely that your coworkers dislike parts of their jobs that you actually enjoy.
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Set realistic goals for yourself. Take your strengths and weaknesses into account, and focus on accomplishing your tasks in a way that is tailored to your personal work style. Working towards goals and seeing them come to fruition is a natural and productive way to change your attitude on the job for the better.
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Ask to work with someone who inspires you. If there is a person in your workplace who has a good attitude, you could learn a lot by spending some time working alongside that person.
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Request to speak with a supervisor. Explain that you have identified some ways in which you would like to improve your productivity at work. Ask for suggestions regarding how you may change your attitude for the better. When you involve your supervisor, you not only improve that relationship, but you also assert yourself as someone who takes your job and performance seriously, which can reap positive job-related benefits and further contribute to a positive attitude.
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Reassign tasks that you feel undermine your ability to have a positive attitude at work. If possible, alter your responsibilities so that they are more in line with your strengths and occupational goals, and delegate the responsibilities you are less compatible with to a willing coworker.How to Stop Getting Distracted when Trying to Get Things Done
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- 1Know what you need to get done (e.g., finishing your homework, doing your chores, studying, etc.)
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Find ways to enjoy your task.
- If you get distracted finishing your homework, then make a game out of the process. Give yourself a treat after completing difficult assignments.
- If you get distracted doing chores around the house, keep track of how long it takes to do a given task. Keep track of these figures to make things interesting.
- If you get distracted while studying and benefit from working with others, try studying with other people.
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Figure out what is distracting you (e.g., friends, food, a wandering mind, worries, etc.) Identifying the problem will allow you to address the issue directly.
- If you are distracted online by websites like Facebook and Twitter, you might want to download a program like this one to Stop Distractions.
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Designate a place, room, or other location that eliminates these distractions. Clean your workplace regularly to avoid clutter, which could become a distraction.
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Stagger breaks. These time periods can be used to quell whatever may be distracting you (e.g. food, gossip, anxiety.)
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Get into a routine. Maintaining this routine will make focusing easier.
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Avoid stress. Sometimes, stress causes a decline in concentration- 1Gather your materials. Don't waste time when you are actually working to find the materials you need. Get all your materials beforehand so when you start working, you won't have to move around. Whether it be a pencil, eraser, calculator, etc., whatever you need just put them at one spot for now.
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StudyInteractive.org/MBA-Online - 2Release all stress. Before you start working, do whatever you want to do. Knowing that you will spend the next minutes, hours, or days focusing on work, release the stress by spending 10 minutes doing something else. Taking a shower or exercising is a good way to release the stress before you begin the work.
- 3Sit in a cramped room. When focusing, you want to concentrate on one thing, and only one thing. If you are in a cramped room, there is not much you can do. You will not be tempted to walk around in order to waste as much time as you can. Also, many people do not enjoy working in cramped spaces. If you are working in a cramped space, you will want to work as fast as you can in order to get out of the room. The best place to focus is in the bathroom
- 4Close your window blinds. If you decide to work in your room, you would want to close your window blinds. For some people, it is very tempting to look outside the window to see if a friend walks by. You might also be tempted to do something totally pointless, such as count the number of trees outside.
- 5Stay away from electronics. If you have a computer or television in your room, cover it up with a piece of cloth so that you will not see it and be tempted. Make sure your cell phone is on vibrate or turn it off; this way, if it rings, you do not notice it.
- 6Block out noise. The best way to do this is by putting earplugs on. The only noise you should be hearing is yourself thinking. Do not listen to music when you work, as you might start singing along. Ignore any noise produced outside the room as well.
- 7Warn your family. As you are most likely to lock your door, plug in earplugs, and not make any noise, your family might think that you have died or fainted. Before you begin your work, tell them that you are going to go through a period of hardcore studying/work so you will be unable to answer them. If they are not home, put a sign on the outside of your door saying "DO NOT DISTURB, CURRENTLY WORKING." This way, they will not bother you in anyway.
- 8Stay awake. This is a crucial part in focusing. Many fall asleep cause they get bored so easily. This is a good reason for working in a bathroom; you can just walk up to the sink and splash your face with water. If you are not working in the bathroom, I advise that you get one of those water spray bottles and occasionally spray yourself to stay awake. An alternative is slapping your face.
- 9Eat food. Always have food by your side. Energy bars can help keep you a wake, as well as fill up your stomach. Instead of going back and forth from your room and the kitchen, keep a stash next to you. Water is a good thirst quencher.
- 10Stare at the material. The final and most important step to focusing is staring at whatever you are working on. If you are capable of not have your eyes wandering off, you are fully capable of working quick and efficiently. If you are beginning to feel uncomfortable, look up at the ceiling, but not anywhere that may contain distractions.
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- Give electronics to parents. This way, you won't be tempted to take them out.
- Stay away from your addictions.
- Get used to staying in a cramped environment.
- If your work requires access to the Internet, find a way to block out distracting sites such as YouTube and Facebook. This way, even with electronics, there's much less of a chance to be distracted.
- Use a computer you aren't familiar with. That way, you will only know how to use Microsoft Office applications and be less tempted to go scouring for games.
- If you are claustrophobic, working in a cramped space may cause you to faint.
- Go to the restroom when needed. Do not force yourself to finish up your work before you go.
How to Focus
24 authors | 52 revisions | Last updated: July 3, 2012The ability to focus is an essential skill for all students and professionals. It is paramount to academic/work related success.Edit Steps
- 1Decide that you are going to study and get down to business immediately. Do not think about anything else that is not study-related. If you are working on a computer, do not surf the Internet to play computer games or watch videos on YouTube. Avoid Facebook and other social networks at all costs.
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StudyInteractive.org/MBA-Online - 2Plan ahead. A plan helps you get back on track. Having a ready planned schedule helps you to stay focused instead of wondering what are you going to do next. Also, do a survey to get an overview of what you need to do. Identify:
- Which books to read from cover to cover?
- Which materials to study in detail?
- Which materials to cover only selected sections or portions?
- Amongst so many subjects to study, which are priorities and urgent?
- How much time you have to allocate?
- Which books to read from cover to cover?
- 3Identify the reason why you cannot focus. Often it will be things that are simple to remove, for example Facebook, your cell phone, TV, music, the mess on your desktop, etc. But there may as well be psychological reasons for your lack of focus, which can be harder to identify and harder to remove. You can tell your school teacher or your parents about your problem. They will find ways to help you. Common reasons are:
- Not being prepared to read and study
- A lack of interest in the material
- The material is too difficult
- A lack of motivation
- A lack of suitable goal
- Not being prepared to read and study
- 4Get rid of these elements that prevent you from focusing.
- 5Set dateline and focus on tackling one tasks at a time. This helps you to focus better.
- 6Eat, drink, or use the bathroom BEFORE you start with work.
- 7Restrict internet use to relevant topics only (Wikipedia, wikiHow, Ask.com, online journals, etc. - no Facebook, MySpace, blogs or surfing) or better yet get yourself another browser. If you are using Google Chrome you might want to try the Stay Focused app, which restricts the time you can use on any webpage per day. Also delete all the easy access shortcuts, leaving only the one in the start menu --> all programs.
- 8Study in a well lit area. Trying to read in the dark is not good for you.
- 9Don't expect that the feeling of being focused will come automatically, just because you've done the above mentioned steps. One key to become focused is to like what you are doing, a feeling of wanting to know more about the subject. So if it's not your favourite subject that you're going to study, you will have to convince yourself that the subject is interesting. You may find it hard at first, but once you learn the value of investing interest in your studies the less you will have to force yourself to focus.
- 10Studies show that the average person focuses best when holding at 15 minutes after each 45 minutes of studying. So relax and don't press yourself way too hard in the beginning.
- 11Allocate time to reflect on what is being learnt.
Tips- Exercise often helps improve focus. A 20 minute jog doesn't take very long and can work wonders.
- Try to make your mind as much relaxed so as not to be thinking or having any tension about anything.
Warnings- The inability to focus is not always a matter lack of motivation or laziness. Certain medical conditions can physically prevent someone from focusing (e.g. ADHD).
- Even though medical conditions do exist that prevent people from focusing, don't be too quick to diagnose yourself with ADHD just because you always seem to end up on Facebook before an exam, because in fact more people than you might think have problems focusing, for various other reasons.
- 1Look at what influences concentration. Many issues go far beyond mere laziness into planning and facilitating (making it happen).
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www.liverpool-degrees.com - 2Get a full night of rest. Sleep deprivation can make it very difficult to concentrate for a topic for long periods of time. Make sure you are getting at least eight hours of rest per night.
- 3Remove stress and anxiety producing factors. Worrying about other things, whether they be relationships or friends, can make it difficult to put those issues aside and focus on your studies. You may want to consider removing some of these stresses and tackle them head on. Is your schedule too loaded? Are you dealing with peer pressure? Prioritize your schedule and develop confidence in your relationships.
- 4Adopt a healthier diet. Your body needs good food in order to keep it running well. Poor diets can be linked to low energy and depression, which can make it difficult to concentrate. On the flip side, caffeine can overstimulate you and lead to nervousness.
- 5Avoid symptoms of boredom. Boredom comes from doing something that lacks meaning or motivation to you. Try to find a way to make your studies more interesting, or at least create good rewards for yourself that will make you more motivated to finish -- like get a salad to celebrate.
- 6Sublimate: be vigorous and emotional to succeed using anger or even fear of making a C to motivate practice of skills or study concepts.
- 1Have everything you need to study. Your pencils and pens, highlighters and books should be within your reach so that you are not distracted while studying.
- 2Have a snack nearby. Something simple like crackers or chips will help your mind stay focused. Don't drink coffee, tea, or any other energy drinks. They will eventually lead to crash that makes you feel tired.
- 3Have a timetable. Work for 30-60 minute periods with 5-10 minute breaks in between.
- 4Embrace your learning: Studying or practicing for an hour is like a feast of learning or a workout. Tell yourself why you want to do that.
- 5Find a quiet place to study. You want the room to be silent and free of distractions in order to concentrate. For example, do not study right in front of a TV because you will only do your homework when the advertisements come up. Go to get a "snip" of TV or radio only as a quick break -- exactly as if it's a few moments to go to get a drink of water. Such entertainment is not a festival, not like a picnic; keep it simple and quick.
- 6Make sure your cell phone and other electronic devices are turned off. This will help you avoid temptations to be off task and allow you to stay on your plan.
- 7Consider playing music softly. For some people, music helps them concentrate. For some, it doesn't. Try it out and see what works best for you.
- 1Do the least pleasant tasks first. While fresh you can sizzle with the highest powers of concentration at your disposal. "Do the most critical understandings and deep background concepts early", before moving on to easier (less challenging) but necessary grinding out of details. If you do the easier tasks first, you will be thinking about/and "stressing-nerves" on the harder ones, the whole time, and feel more tempted to avoid them once you do reach them (at the end of too much busy-work).
- 2Have an objective list. Write out a list of everything you need to accomplish. Check each items off as you finish it.
- 3The "5 More" rule. Tell yourself to do only five more things before quitting. Once you've finished those, do another five. Breaking tasks up into smaller chunks makes things easier for those with shorter concentration spans.
- 4Reward yourself. Offer yourself incentives once you've completed a study task. This will imTips
- Figure out your study habits, such as re-reading previous notes or pages in a textbook.
- It helps to think about what you'll be doing if you flunk and get an "F" or under 35 marks. Think about this and it will compel (or "entice") you to do better.
- It really helps if you drink water because your body needs to stay hydrated.
- Whenever you feel like studying -- do it. Don't waste your inspiration, but lift it up.
- Make tasks for each day to see that you complete your work in your given period of time.
- Never back down or fizzle. Relax for a few minutes; then get back on your study plan.
- Persistence (keeping on it) is the secret in medium, longer term goals, get some talent (pursue what you want to become good at a higher level: start to do develop your ability; desire it and follow through to shape your talent/or skill). prove your motivation and therefore your concentration.
- Don't study for too long because your brain cannot concentrate for long periods of time. Eventually you will start to think about other things and won't be able to think about the material you are studying.
- Bottle of water
- Good night's sleep
- Your notes and books
- Paper, pens and pencils
- A quiet place
- Fresh mind
How to Focus on Doing Work at Home
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May 12, 2012
Whether it be homework, a project, or studying, everybody has to focus on what they are doing in order to accomplish what they want. Following these steps can help you focus on your work at home, as well as work faster.
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How to Concentrate on Studies
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Potential Issues With Concentration
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